1. Try to understand why you are upset.
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2. Don't think about whose fault it was - at one time or another, everyone makes mistakes. Don't worry about it.
3. Do something quiet and relaxing to help you feel better.
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4. In an hour, or two, or whenever you're ready, start thinking about whether you are ready to accept the other person's feelings.
5. Move on, the past is past....
6. Giga sulu baru, and happy ever after
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7. Smile! Seriously, smiling makes you feel better and if you gather a few good, close friends and have a laugh together, you'll remember how good life was without him and that you're okay really.
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9. Put away the memories.
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